I’m not okay with Chris Brown performing at the Grammys and I don’t think anyone else should be either. In the 3 years since he assaulted his girlfriend the night before the Grammy Awards, he’s behaved like the rest of the world owes him an apology and thrown temper tantrum after temper tantrum. It’s not about celebrating or displaying undignified behavior. Also, his performance last year at the VMAs was fucking terrible.
it’s my birthday.. take note and buy me something
I just discovered that people who aren’t my friends can send me messages on Facebook.. but it puts it in a folder marked “Other”… I had lots of VERY funny messages from complete strangers.. some I think from people here.. and who see my stuff (or me) elsewhere on blogs, publications.. teevee.. you get the idea.. anywhoo.. most of it was very sweet and positive.. THIS was the most entertaining. for the record: I have no idea who this queen was asking me about. gurl.. lay off the sauce
lauren potter and george clooney (my former boss) at the SAG awards
went in to get some ice cream.. then left…
paula deen has a line of lip balms.. one of them is butter flavored [shudders] and the tubes say “put a little south in your mouth”.. which sounds a bit like a come on… eating one of these can’t possibly be worse for you to eat than her cheese dip
GPOY - in my latest interview for Huffington Post - Gay Voices, I spoke with Timothy Phelps of the Westboro Baptist Church.. the God Hates Fags People… I’ve spoken with them and about them many times. This interview was really kind of an incredible conversation. I spent about an hour mentally preparing myself for their screaming shtick.. then spent over an hour on the phone with Phelps. I have to admit.. I laughed several times.. and so did he. Read the story for yourself HERE

Just remembered an interaction that I had with a straight guy at SF PRIDE who noticed the Westboro group’s signs. Totally beautiful.
michael bolton and bill clinton chatting on stage and preparing to perform together in palm springs